raised in a Catholic household that emphasizes romantic love over erotic love. But not anymore because I'm in a relationship. And for the first time, maybe because I didn't feel any real pressure or expectations, I was able to be more vocal about what I did and didn't like. By kofi, may 14, 2003. Mostly because I'm not feeling any sort of deep satisfaction with one-night stands, so I'm less likely to want to keep pursuing them. And ultimately, I still didn't orgasm that night, but I did change some of my own ideas and inhibitions around sex and intimacy. Advertisement - Continue Reading Below, man B: We were both OK with it because we'd always had sexual tension between us and figured it was inevitably going to happen at some point. That way, you always have someone or multiple people on call.